Mom urges that diaper changes should only be made with the baby’s permission

We all find changing diapers and all that comes with them really unpleasant. However, the majority of us have to or will be forced to engage in it as a natural part of raising children.

This mother offers some original advice on when and how to change your baby’s diaper, starting with gaining the child’s permission first!


When an individual or couple has a kid, changing diapers is a routine task. Although it isn’t the most enjoyable aspect of parenting, practically everyone goes through it at some point.

There are many different perspectives on how to raise a baby, as there are other things related to parenting. There are different opinions about the best diapers, how frequently to change a diaper, and how to change a diaper correctly, among parents and professionals.

The American Pregnancy Association advises diaper changes every two to three hours, which most parents with experience would consider to be appropriate.

However, not everyone follows this advice when determining where and when to change their baby’s diaper.

During a recent interview on the popular chat show This Morning, Lottie Daley—a mother herself—raised many people’s eyebrows with her standards for determining whether to change a diaper.

Daley supports asking a child’s permission before changing his or her diaper. She thinks that by doing this, young children will be introduced to the concepts of permission and bodily autonomy.

Of course, asking a newborn if they consent is not as straightforward as answering “yes” or “no.” Babies are unable to comprehend or respond to a request for permission.

Lottie will continue to try to enquire in the hopes that doing so may begin to shape the child’s expectations of asking and receiving questions before touching someone.

This habit can be formed in contexts other than diaper changes. The technique should be performed before tickling them, before cleaning or wiping items off of them, and during bath time, as Daley mentioned in her interview.

The mother of two has lived what she preaches and still obtains permission from her five and seven-year-old kids before assisting them in cleaning themselves.

According to Lottie, teaching children about consent practices while they are young will be far more advantageous for them than waiting till they are adolescents. The ability to set personal limits and respect those of others will be developed in children.

She goes even further, saying that tickling ought to be prohibited.

Russell Brand, a friend of Lottie’s and a comedian, has appeared on This Morning before. Even the “Get Him to the Greek” actor has shared similar views on raising kids.

He argues that we shouldn’t perform any actions on a child without getting their permission that we wouldn’t perform on an adult. Any other action would go against a person’s right to bodily autonomy.

Daley’s explanation of her opinion on the show drew criticism on a number of social media sites, as was to be expected.

Many people voiced worry that her beliefs were too close to never allowing adults to assist youngsters in cleaning themselves, which would result in poor hygiene and health hazards. Others believe that limiting practices like tickling is excessive and takes away some of what makes parenting unique.

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